Pros & Cons
Decisions are a part of life and is something will always be with us as long as we are alive. We choose what we feel works best for us in a certain situation or experience. We can either choose the right thing or wrong thing when making decisions. We can either make a decision based on emotion and fear or make a decision based on clarity, analyzation and focus.
It is always wise to weigh your pros and cons on any decision one is attempting to make in life. Whether it be in relationships, job opportunity, growth within oneself, life altering experiences or on a plan of action. Weighing pros and cons can assist in making a concise and rational decision where one can be satisfied and at peace knowing it was the right thing to do.
As human beings, we definitely second guess ourselves in decision making for fear of making the wrong choice that will alter our lives permanently and we end up living with regrets. Our pros and cons are what will help us grow in trusting ourselves with the utmost confidence that we are on the right path in life. It gives a sense of relief and empowerment that we were able to make a proud step without second guessing ourselves.
Pros and cons help so much in those hard situations that we feel have no resolution. Pros and cons help us to think and ask ourselves the very important questions needed to be asked in making a choice that feels right within our spirit, soul and heart. Pros and cons keep us in a specific order in our life plan and destiny where are goals and dreams are concerned. Pros and cons can truly keep us in staying the course of positivity and encouragement of not giving up when things don’t look promising.
Be true, real, raw and honest with yourself when analyzing your pros and cons of any situation. If the cons out-weight the pros then there is much work to be done and there is some form of disconnect which needs to be fixed. If the pros out-weigh the cons then pat yourself on the back and find ways to remain proactive and innovative on taking oneself to a whole new level.
Allow your pros to keep you ahead of the game. Allow your cons to keep you on your toes of finding ways to improve growth and development within oneself, relationships, career choices and in a better way of living life. Allow pros and cons to be that sounding voice within oneself when no one is there to help in your time of need.
Be confident in making sure your pros and cons are realistic and solified to the decision at hand. Pros and cons will create an altimatum within oneself where there is no more need for proscration and allows you to set up time frame for yourself. Be smart! Be concise! Be real! Weigh your Pros & Cons!
Dhylles Davis
Certified Life Coach
"You are an accomplishment from the day you were born!"
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