You Owe You
How many times have you felt the need to tolerate a person or people because they have been there for you or have done things for you?
Have you ever felt the need to stay in toxic relationships with others due to what they have done for you in the past but do not appreciate you or treat you badly?
Have you ever stayed in friendships/relationships due to obligation that are one sided where you are bending over backwards and left feeling like a doormat?
I know the feeling very well as I have been there myself and have realized that it is definitely not worth the stress to be around toxic and negative people. If they were as geniune and sweet as they claim to be then it would not be a question or thought in your head and heart why you feel the need to part ways.
Reality check!! You don’t owe anyone anything in this life. You only owe God and yourself to be the best you can be and live your life the best way you seem fit. Why worry about having to owe anyone anything? If someone did something for you or was there for you in a trying time, that was their choice to do so from the kindness of their heart. Why feel the need to be obligated when deep down in your heart it is not right to be in the company of that person. Don’t be afraid to walk away from a person or situation that does not deem fit any longer.
The saying is definitely true “People come into your life for a reason, season or lifetime”. With that being said, You definitely have the right to choose who you bring into your life and who you allow to affect the way you feel and live. Why allow others to take up space in your heart, head and life? Why allow them to cause you unnecessary stress you really don’t need? Why allow them to waste your time and energy when you can put your time and energy towards more important things? Remember that misery does love company and the more you allow someone to pass on their negative energy to you the more they will do it to you.
You owe yourself a great life. You owe yourself self love, acceptance and approval. You owe yourself happiness and peace. You owe yourself great sleep at night. You owe yourself health, strength, wisdom, courage, grace, intelligence and positivity. You are obligated to you and only you. You are obligated to make sure that you to become everything you want to be as long as you are living and breathing. You are obligated to deserve good things to take place in your life. You are obligated to stay pure, real and honest with yourself that you don’t owe anyone anything. You are obligated to claim things that you want to come into fruition. You are obligated to see that your dreams become reality. You are obligated to know that you were born an accomplishment and God has you here for a reason which is not to be taken advantage by others.
Choose wisely who you allow into your space and cirle. Choose relationships with people who are willing to meet you half way. Choose people who do not make you feel obligated and accept you unconditionally no matter what. Choose people who are mature enough to know that you don’t owe them anything and they don’t owe you anything.
You owe yourself the right to be in good company of others who are liked minded and positive. You owe yourself total harmony and bliss! You owe You!!
Dhylles Davis
Certified Professional Life Consultant
website:www.dhyllesdavis.com
Blog: www.startlivingstopexisting.
Email: info@dhyllesdavis.com
Facebook: www.facebook.com/
Have you ever felt the need to stay in toxic relationships with others due to what they have done for you in the past but do not appreciate you or treat you badly?
Have you ever stayed in friendships/relationships due to obligation that are one sided where you are bending over backwards and left feeling like a doormat?
I know the feeling very well as I have been there myself and have realized that it is definitely not worth the stress to be around toxic and negative people. If they were as geniune and sweet as they claim to be then it would not be a question or thought in your head and heart why you feel the need to part ways.
Reality check!! You don’t owe anyone anything in this life. You only owe God and yourself to be the best you can be and live your life the best way you seem fit. Why worry about having to owe anyone anything? If someone did something for you or was there for you in a trying time, that was their choice to do so from the kindness of their heart. Why feel the need to be obligated when deep down in your heart it is not right to be in the company of that person. Don’t be afraid to walk away from a person or situation that does not deem fit any longer.
The saying is definitely true “People come into your life for a reason, season or lifetime”. With that being said, You definitely have the right to choose who you bring into your life and who you allow to affect the way you feel and live. Why allow others to take up space in your heart, head and life? Why allow them to cause you unnecessary stress you really don’t need? Why allow them to waste your time and energy when you can put your time and energy towards more important things? Remember that misery does love company and the more you allow someone to pass on their negative energy to you the more they will do it to you.
You owe yourself a great life. You owe yourself self love, acceptance and approval. You owe yourself happiness and peace. You owe yourself great sleep at night. You owe yourself health, strength, wisdom, courage, grace, intelligence and positivity. You are obligated to you and only you. You are obligated to make sure that you to become everything you want to be as long as you are living and breathing. You are obligated to deserve good things to take place in your life. You are obligated to stay pure, real and honest with yourself that you don’t owe anyone anything. You are obligated to claim things that you want to come into fruition. You are obligated to see that your dreams become reality. You are obligated to know that you were born an accomplishment and God has you here for a reason which is not to be taken advantage by others.
Choose wisely who you allow into your space and cirle. Choose relationships with people who are willing to meet you half way. Choose people who do not make you feel obligated and accept you unconditionally no matter what. Choose people who are mature enough to know that you don’t owe them anything and they don’t owe you anything.
You owe yourself the right to be in good company of others who are liked minded and positive. You owe yourself total harmony and bliss! You owe You!!
Dhylles Davis
Certified Professional Life Consultant
website:www.dhyllesdavis.com
Blog: www.startlivingstopexisting.
Email: info@dhyllesdavis.com
Facebook: www.facebook.com/
Dhylles Davis
Professional Entrepreneur
"You are an accomplishment from the day you were born!"
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