Speaking from Experience & Can Relate!!
As a life coach/consultant I am able to relate to almost any woman’s journey in this life. As women, we go through great and bad experiences in life and are left with emotional as well as physical and psychological scars. Being a survivor of child abuse, I know first hand what it’s like to have your innocence and youth taken away. I know what it is like to not know your value and worth. I know what is it like to inflict self wounds because you feel that you have no other choice due to the abuse one has endured.
I speak from experience when I say I can relate to not respecting myself enough to saying no and allowing people to use and abuse me especially men. I speak from experience when I felt numb with no emotions or feelings when I decided to disrespect my mind, body, spirit and soul. I speak from experience and can relate as well as sympathize with other women who yearn to have children. I know your pain all too well and how much you have suffered emotionally and physically when losing that precious gift that you conceived but could not carry to term.
I speak from experience when I say that I can relate to verbal, emotional and physical abuse by men who I thought “was the one” but ended up with my heart broken time and time again. I speak from experience when I say I can relate to losing my identity and changing who I was to be the person HE wanted me to be because I thought HE would stay. I put up with the bullshit being served to me because I thought that was love. I put up with the toxic and negative energy being thrown my way for their past experiences and comparisons to ex-girlfriends. I can relate to moving in or moving to another state for so called love, only to be dumped and left because I was no longer “the one”.
I have swallowed all that was thrown my way with hurt and pain within my heart. All that was left was the negative energy and thoughts of every man being the same. The thoughts of never finding “Mr. Right” because he did not exist because I was not good enough stayed with me day in and out. I beat myself up time and time again, blaming myself for being too loving and falling too quickly and so hard. I kept asking myself why me? what was wrong with me? how did I get to this space? Is this all my life would amount too?
I speak from experience when I say I can relate to women taking ownership and accountability of their feelings and emotions. I can relate about being uncomfortable in allowing myself to being good to me. I can relate about being uncomfortable in learning to realize my value and worth as a person and a woman. I speak from experience when I know how long it truly takes to love and trust again. I can relate about being able to forgive myself for things I have done to me. I can relate about the process it took for me to realize that the only approval and acceptance I truly needed was my own and God. I can relate about being able learn self-confidence and strength as well allowing God to show me my path. I can relate in building up my faith within myself and the most high especially those times when I did not feel worthy of his love.
I am a work in progress but I no longer allow my power to be taken away from me. I learned to be comfortable in my own skin. I learned to love myself unconditionally. I learned to let go of self-torture and self-inflicting wounds I have done to myself due to past abuse. I am learned to let go of the negative thoughts due to past abuse. I learned to let go of the past. I learned to practice being positive and empowering within myself. I learned to love me and in turn I am loved unconditionally loved for me. I hope and pray that women can experience and relate to having unconditional love within themselves as well as being loved unconditionally for them!
I speak from experience when I say I can relate to not respecting myself enough to saying no and allowing people to use and abuse me especially men. I speak from experience when I felt numb with no emotions or feelings when I decided to disrespect my mind, body, spirit and soul. I speak from experience and can relate as well as sympathize with other women who yearn to have children. I know your pain all too well and how much you have suffered emotionally and physically when losing that precious gift that you conceived but could not carry to term.
I speak from experience when I say that I can relate to verbal, emotional and physical abuse by men who I thought “was the one” but ended up with my heart broken time and time again. I speak from experience when I say I can relate to losing my identity and changing who I was to be the person HE wanted me to be because I thought HE would stay. I put up with the bullshit being served to me because I thought that was love. I put up with the toxic and negative energy being thrown my way for their past experiences and comparisons to ex-girlfriends. I can relate to moving in or moving to another state for so called love, only to be dumped and left because I was no longer “the one”.
I have swallowed all that was thrown my way with hurt and pain within my heart. All that was left was the negative energy and thoughts of every man being the same. The thoughts of never finding “Mr. Right” because he did not exist because I was not good enough stayed with me day in and out. I beat myself up time and time again, blaming myself for being too loving and falling too quickly and so hard. I kept asking myself why me? what was wrong with me? how did I get to this space? Is this all my life would amount too?
I speak from experience when I say I can relate to women taking ownership and accountability of their feelings and emotions. I can relate about being uncomfortable in allowing myself to being good to me. I can relate about being uncomfortable in learning to realize my value and worth as a person and a woman. I speak from experience when I know how long it truly takes to love and trust again. I can relate about being able to forgive myself for things I have done to me. I can relate about the process it took for me to realize that the only approval and acceptance I truly needed was my own and God. I can relate about being able learn self-confidence and strength as well allowing God to show me my path. I can relate in building up my faith within myself and the most high especially those times when I did not feel worthy of his love.
I am a work in progress but I no longer allow my power to be taken away from me. I learned to be comfortable in my own skin. I learned to love myself unconditionally. I learned to let go of self-torture and self-inflicting wounds I have done to myself due to past abuse. I am learned to let go of the negative thoughts due to past abuse. I learned to let go of the past. I learned to practice being positive and empowering within myself. I learned to love me and in turn I am loved unconditionally loved for me. I hope and pray that women can experience and relate to having unconditional love within themselves as well as being loved unconditionally for them!
Dhylles Davis
Certified Professional Life Coach
"You are an accomplishment from the day you were born!"
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